Planning a Wedding

Princess Grace and Prince Rainier

As a past wedding director & coordinator, I wanted to share some tips for would-be brides (and grooms) planning to marry.

When you begin your journey to marry, set a budget and a realistic date to meet that budget. This is especially important if you don't already have savings or parents to help you pay for it. You won't have to cut corners this way.

Realize that the planning and details can at times be stressful. To avoid that as much as possible, have all your plans in a wedding binder with a check off list of all the wedding details and a timeline. Make sure you are finished with everything at least one month before your wedding so you can relax and get ready for the most wonderful day together. Doing everything last minute is a disaster.

The focus of your wedding is you as a couple. It is not pageantry! (I can't say enough about how the media has created an unrealistic appetite for couples to have over-the-top weddings~save that for the celebrities)!

Don't forget to consider the comforts of your guests. The elderly are sensitive to heat and standing in long lines. Make sure you have adequate coverage and seating.

Your wedding does not have to be extravagant. You can have a wedding on any budget! Incorporate you into all the details~don't try to pattern yourself after anyone else. The colors you choose and the decor should be recognized as your special touch. There are lots of wedding blogs for inspiration.

Realize that weddings rarely go off without a hitch! The day of your wedding, things will unfold as they will~you will not be able to control everything! Go with the flow and know that those around you want only the best for you.

Determine what you want your wedding day to be like. For instance, if you are thinking about your soon to be spouse, thankful for all the support of your family and friends, willing your day to be beautiful, it will. Be positive! You will remember this special day for years to come as you grow old together.